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Ladies breakfasts October 2024

This month we had two breakfasts to accommodate those who had prior engagements on the dates set.  On both occasions it was a precious time of fellowship amongst the ladies.  We were blessed to have Ruth share her testimony both times.  You can read it below the pictures.

 

 

RUTH'S TESTIMONY

I was born in Kenya, Nairobi in 1952 on a farm bordering the main river, with the forest on the other side of the river. My mother was doing laying hens and selling the eggs to the market.

I can remember the freedom of no fences and open land. My father had to help with security at night because the Mau Mau were causing a lot of problems in the surrounding areas. He decided to leave immediately, having heard that we were not safe. We drove down in two VW Beetles with just basics, leaving all our possessions behind. My father made a divide down the centre of the car to keep my brother and I apart.

We arrived in South Africa and rented until my father found us a house. My grade 1 and 2 was at Norwood Primary School, Then, my father was transferred to Port Elizabeth for a couple of years and then to Durban. It was there where I first became aware of God. My mother was Anglican, so I had been christened and had God parents of whom I never met.

At the church Reverend Deeble was minister. He had a great love for the young people. As he shared the Word, I became aware of God. On hearing that my father was to be transferred again back to Johannesburg, I knew that God was going to go with me. My mother and I went to see the Anglican Church in Bryanston and she was told that they didn’t want any more people because they were full. My mother never went to church again after that.

I can’t remember how I ended up going to the Presbyterian Church. The minister there as Des Clynick. He too loved the Lord. They had a campsite near Krugersdorp Which they shared with the Dutch Reformed Church. It was here where Des preached the gospel and I received the Lord into my life. It was the most awesome experience. Getting back home Des told me that I must get confirmed, but God had other plans. One of my friends who had also got saved on the same camp phoned me and asked me to a Bible study. The ministry was about the Godhead. God moved in my heart and I was filled with the Holy Spirit. My friend was getting baptised that evening, so I joined her. Getting back home, I told my parents what had happened. They refused to accept what I had to say. I went to visit my grandfather and found out that he believed as well. I was so excited. He was a Methodist Minister who had been part of the introduction of Gideon Bibles into South Africa. The Lord took him shortly after that.

Now when I began to read the Bible, I read about Enoch who lived for three hundred and sixty-three years. He walked with God, just as Adam and Eve had done in the garden of Eden. And he was not because God took him. That just blew my mind. I wanted that to happen to me.

Then I read about Moses going to meet God in the mountain. People and animals had to be kept away from the mountain otherwise they would die. Moses comes down the mountain and his face shone. Another incredible event.

When the tabernacle was built, the entrance faced the rising sun. God met Moses at the entrance, descending in a cloud. They spoke to each other.

Jesus goes up the mountain with his disciples. The glory of the Lord comes down and covers Elijah Jesus and Moses. These were all events taking place on this earth.

Then Paul is caught up into heavenly places and sees things he was forbidden to talk about. Jesus told him what must be spoken about.

John was also caught up and shown the end times. He too saw incredible sights. He lived to 104 before the Lord took him. Being imprisoned on the island of Patmos, he was unable to share with anyone but he wrote them down.

Today each one of us have something to look forward to. The return of the Lord. The rapture, where we will hear the trumpet and will be caught up to meet our Lord in the air. How exciting is that.

My testimony continues : I accepted the Lord in my matric year, the year I had to choose which field to study. The Lord wanted me to be a teacher so I went to Johannesburg College of education to get a degree. In my final year I did my last teaching practice at Norwood Primary school. On returning to college a group of us had to prepare a reading lesson in a different lecture hall. It was the there where the lecturer who saw to placing us for our teaching practices and also jobs,  came rushing in and asked us if any of us had not applied yet. I had looked through the many jobs and God let me know to close the books because the job was net there. Three of us put our hands up. Two of them said they had applied. I said no. She called me into her office and put me on her phone. It was the headmaster from Norwood Primary school. He wanted to see me that afternoon That was my first job.

In the meantime, a group of us got together for 5 years to find out how God wanted the church to be run. In that time, we learned about the gift ministries and God raised them up in our midst. At the end of that time, He broke us up and we all went our different ways. I joined up with Assemblies of God in Constantia Kloof with Gerald Hawyes. We went down to Durban and met with Mike Attlee asking him to take us under his wing as it were. He believed in the gift ministries. So, the work started in Constantia Kloof. Then we were asked to start a work in Lyttleton Pretoria. The folk came through and Ray was with them. I was playing the piano. A similar situation as my mother and father.

As we planned our wedding, we were looking for a house. Ray prayed for a house for R500. A month. The lord provided one for 3 years. I had to give my notice at Norwood and the deputy headmaster, who was also moving to Pretoria asked me to join him at Hamilton Primary School where he was to become Headmaster.

Our church grew in numbers and we built our church together. It became Lakeside Assembly. Again, I saw God building up the gift ministries, and then many folks left to be used elsewhere in the work.

I stayed at home for 10 years while my children were little. Then went back to a nursery school to observe children developing. The head teacher was my mentor and taught me much. When our four children were at school I wanted to teach again in the government school. Sunnyside wanted to start a Grade 0 class as the government wanted to get them into the primary schools. Bad move I felt. So, I applied and when they heard that I was a remedial teacher, they asked me to start immediately, I started in September and did remedial till the end of the year. I then started the Grade 0 class and did it for 2 years. The headmistress then decided to bring me back into remedial, so I worked with groups of 8. from Grade 1 to 7, doing Remedial English. I was there for 6 years. Then one day I was called in and told that I was not wanted anymore. I was shattered but went home knowing that God had a plan. I went for a walk in the complex we were staying in, and my neighbour was also outside. I told her what had happened and she told me that her school needed a grade 2 teacher immediately. She worked at Hamilton Primary School. I couldn’t believe it. So, I was back at the school I had taught at when I got married. I spent 6 years there.

At church, we heard that a family near Hartbeespoort dam had heard Chris Scott on radio pulpit and asked him to please start a work there. Ray and I joined up with them and it grew. Today many of the believers are from Malawi. Very precious folk. They taught us some of their songs.

Our children were by this time grown and out of the house. They were worried about us being on our own, so told us to get ready to move down to Langebaan. I said only if we could sell the house quickly. Two days and it was sold. We moved down in August two years ago. We already knew about the church down here, because Tony and Carol had known us in the past, and their boys had been on camps with our girls.

We are now settled, with my daughter close by. The children are all happy. Both Ray and I are just waiting on the Lord to show us what His plans are for our lives down here. He showed me a mealie seed that is left to dry. On being planted it will shrivel up as the new life begins to grow. The roots into the ground (the Word of God) being food for the growth of the shoot. As the shoot reaches the surface, it can meet with different problems, other plants smothering it, yet it grows because it is being fed by the roots. It could be a rock, but it will continue to grow because it is looking for freedom to grow. Or it could appear in prepared ground with no limits and it grows freely. Our lives have new seasons and again we have to die that Christ may live in us in a different situation.

I just want to thank you all for your love. Ray hated hugs, but since he has been in the fellowship, he is learning receive as well as give hugs. It’s been awesome. The Body of Christ is truly a blessed place to belong to. And the best place is of course being near to the heart of God. May the Lord bless you all.

Ladies Breakfast 7th June 2024

We enjoyed a good time of fellowship over breakfast on Friday the 7th June 2024 at the Blue Bay Lodge with a beautiful view of the sea. 

The theme for discusssion was the importance of the Word of God in our daily lives.  The encouragement was to share how the Word is effective in a number of ways:

1.  Bread :  Do we find that the Word is our daily sustenance; we esteem His Words more than our necessary food.

2.  Light : The Word of God gives us direction; it lightens our path, showing the right way to walk each day.  

3.   Mirror:  When we hear the Word it shows us what manner of woman we are and the woman we should be.  Thank you Father for the washing of the water by the Word that cleanses us from our secret faults.

4.  Sword:  The only weapon of attack that we have is the sword of the Spirit/the Word of God.  Thank you Lord that you equip us to face the onslaught of the enemy in whatever way it comes, whether discouragement, doubt, etc. 

Anna told Mary a sword would pierce her heart.  Thank you Lord for your Word which pierces our hard hearts and divides between the thoughts and intents.....

 

 

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 Testimony: Drew Pivalizza

The Start of the Journey

In 1980 at a Scripture Union meeting at our school I responded to the invitation to accept Jesus Christ as my Lord and Saviour.  I do not come from a Christian family/background. This was new to me. I did not even have Christian friends. One even asked why I went to these Christian meetings, all I could say was that; I did not know why, but this is what I needed to do. There was no follow-up from SU and I was left to my own devices.

I found a dusty Bible in the bookshelf amongst the cowboy stories. I thought all I needed to do was read the bible, pray and tried to be a good person. All of this was difficult. Reading the bible was difficult; where to start and nothing made sense. Praying was even more difficult; how does one do this. Being good … well that was possibl; just stick to the all the laws. And I became a good white washed tomb…nice and clean on the outside, but dead bones of hate, bitterness, anger, unforgiveness, spite, malice, envy, etc on the inside.

I didn’t attend church and the habit of bible reading and praying became sporadic. 

Nine (9) years later at work  I was harassed by a young Christian man (Andre’) who had to tell me every morning about what he and his church were studying in the Book of Revelation.  There was no specific scripture that convicted me, but I knew that if I died that day I would go to Hell.  I realized that I had nothing in me that could save me; nothing I did/ achieve could save me, but go to God ask “What do I do…?” There was this urgency for me to attend the nearest church the very first Sunday. So I walked to the Methodist church that Sunday and sat at the back.

 It was, a few months later, at the first Easter Service that it struck me who Jesus was and what He did for me.  There was a huge wooden cross in the front with a thorny crown.  It struck me that this Jesus gave His life for me….no-one ever did anything for me. It was not a dramatic/  a Damascus Road conversion, but God work in my heart nevertheless.

I was drawn back to this church every Sunday like a magnet…every time the Reverend opened the Bible to preach it was like he had opened a treasure chest and was revealing and sharing precious jewels to us. Every Sunday he presented to us the gospel message of the need to have Jesus in our lives.

Discipleship is important

It was not long when I was put under the wing of an elderly lady; Yvonne Rawlings, who gave me a bible, who took me to bible study and enquired whether I was baptized or not.  When I told her I was not as I was not from a Christian home.  My Dad was of the opinion that children should choose their own religion.  She made arrangements for me to share my testimony in front of the church (Phil 3:12 14) and I was baptized.  I don’t think they ever had an adult baptism before. Philippians 3:12-14 “Not that I have already attained or am already perfected, but I press on, that I may lay hold of that for which Christ Jesus has also laid hold of for me. Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended, but one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead. I press towards the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.”

Growing in Grace

No one becomes a mature adult overnight and likewise it is with the spirit. It is a long slow process. In the beginning I could only consume small portions of scripture at a time; reading Psalms, Proverbs and the New Testament. I was a timid and shy person; afraid of people and I struggled with public speaking and public prayer. I had a learning disability (dyslexia) at school and struggled to read. They wanted to put me in a remedial class. I was awkward in the company of others.  I could only pray quietly to myself….still not sure how and what to pray.  The first few years as Christian were easy; quietly keeping up the habit of regularly Church attendance and Bible Study, Bible reading and praying….and being good. I have not yet learned that it is not about being good, but being in Christ Jesus.

Lessons Learnt

*Learning to rid myself of pagan practices ….I was into New Age practices and horoscope. This was one of the first things I got rid of when I got saved.

*Learning to forgive those who had hurt me. I was angry with my father for a long time ….I had a difficult relationship with my own father, but God gave me such a revelation of His Father heart towards me that it was easy to accept Him as My Heavenly Father and seeing Him as loving, kind and merciful. Because of His love towards me I could no longer harbour anger and unforgiveness.

*Learning to submit and obey God’s Word……

A challenge for me as a Christian wife was to learn to submit to my husband as God commanded. For by doing this I was submitting to God and His Word. This was difficult, because he was not saved and had a drinking problem. I grew up in a home where alcohol was abused and I could not see myself staying married to a person with a drinking problem. BUT God wanted me to keep quiet, to pray for my husband and not interfere.  It was when I surrendered to this and submitted to God and His Word, that God began working in my husband’s life. I submit to God’s Word because of His great love for me and my desire to please Him.

*Learning to overcome an eating disorder…Bulimia. 

Another toughy; I would go to God often in much prayer and tears, as His Word and Spirit would convict me. I could not do this on my own. It was like having an addiction I needed God to remove it and set me free, which He did.

*Learning to overcome fear of people and becoming bold in Christ Jesus…

2 Timothy 1:7  “For God did not give us a spirit of fear or timidity, but of power, and of love and of a sound mind.”
Another huge hurdle in my life was the fear of people. This too I could not do without Divine intervention.  At a prayer meeting at work I was prayed for and I was filled with the Holy Spirit.  It was a life changing experience…I was singing and dancing in the Spirit and filled with a supernatural boldness, all fear and timidity was removed.
John 7:37-39  “Let anyone who is thirsty come to me and drink. Whoever believes in me, as Scripture has said, will have rivers of living water flow from within them.”
There must have been a visible change in me because Craig said to me... “I want what you have...”
It was after this, that I was able to speak publicly and pray publicly and boldly…. filled with zeal and joy for the Lord. I became fervent in prayer.

*Learning to use the Word of God....

I bought a prayer book, which helped with praying the Word of God. I would read and pray these prayers out loud.
 I read the Word of God out loud; this helped me to hear it, but also to practise to speak it out.
The same with the prayers and praises and worship songs; my quiet time was not quiet.
This time was not a chore but a joy....great joy to be in the presence of my Holy Father. I could not face the day without being filled with His Word.
The more I read the Word the more I got to know God, know His attributes and know who I am in Christ. I was indeed a new creation.  I read His Word, meditate (chew) on His Word, so that His Word is established in me and that this will transform my heart and mind and this will change the way I behave. When doubts and fear beset me, His Word is a Sword cutting to pieces the snares of the enemy.
Jesus said; “Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every Word that comes from the Mouth of God...” Matthew 4:1-4

Time for Testing and Sanctification

No faith will remain untested. My work place became my winepress and my threshing floor. What flavour was my fruit?

1 Peter 1:7  “…faith will be like gold that has been tested in a fire. And these trials will prove that your faith is worth much more than gold that can be destroyed.” 1Peter 4:12 “Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery trial when it comes upon you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. Don’t be surprised when your faith is tested!

God sends people to bless us and to sanctify us.  Those that bless us we welcome, but we are not always delighted with people who rub us up the wrong way.  I had many of those, and did not always react/respond towards them in a godly manner.

I had a neighbour who lived in the apartment below us; I must have been a real offence to her.  I would get insults from her, rude letters and even a potato in my car’s exhaust. Once a quarter our Church would host a tea / lunch for the elderly. I felt prompted to invite her in spite of her attitude towards me.  I did not expect her to accept the invitation. I even offered to drive her to the event. God was working in her life and mine.  I was taught not to shut the door on those who offend me.

Proverbs 16:7  “When a man’s way pleases the Lord; He makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.”

The fall

I had been a Christian for a few years when things became very difficult in the work place. I was emboldened by the Spirit of God and this attracted offence and conflict.  I was being bullied and put under a tremendous workload. It got to a point where I was booked off with stress and I considered resigning.  This was a time of crisis in my faith.  I questioned God.  I was angry that He had allowed this to happen to me. The heavens became brass and I struggled to pray. All I could do was feed on His Word; reading Psalms, Job, Jeremiah, Lamentations. Christians in the Fellowship we attended were neither understanding nor supportive.

The stress caused me to suffer from short-term memory loss and I thought I would never recover.  BUT a promise from the Word of God came to me from Psalm 23  “He restores my soul…”

God was gracious, longsuffering and patient with my immaturity. I saw that I lacked proper biblical teaching, especially about suffering, trials, persecution and testing. I was zealous, but immature…I still had much to learn.  Much confessing and repenting followed. The testing of my faith was not over.

The Desert

The early years of my walk with Jesus were easy, He carried me and everything was simple, but once a measure of faith and revealational knowledge has been given it is to be tested.  God puts us down and expects us to walk in the faith given and live according to the knowledge received; doing/obeying the Word of God. This is how we grow. It is a challenge, because it will offend others and attract conflict…and testing/trials will follow.

I experienced seasons of growth and fruitfulness, but now it was a season of the desert.  And even here God IS. God speaks volumes in His silence.  He is always there…waiting.  He has spoken. Did I hear? This was a time of learning to trust God and His Word.

This was a time of much Bible reading and studying; slowing getting back to praying, but with humbled reverence.

Streams in the Desert

After many years in the desert of trials and testing I can find a solace there in His Word. He promises are Yea and Amen. I may go through the fire but He is there with me. He has prayed that my faith does not fail. I still trip and fall, but He is beside me lifting me up. His patience, love and faithfulness towards His Beloved never ends.

I have learnt that just because I was in a difficult place/time does not mean I was outside God’s Will.  I take examples of David being pursued by King Saul, Paul the Apostle was imprisoned and Mary... Jesus’ mother gave birth to her firstborn in a stable surrounded by livestock and shepherds, probably not what she envisioned.

I love the verse in Habakkuk 3:17 – 19

This prophet was obedient and faithful, yet he had to face the storm which was to come to his nation for their disobedience; and he penned this;

“Though the fig tree may not blossom, nor fruit be on the vines;
Though the labour of the olive may fall, And the fields yield no food.
Though the flock may be cut off from the fold; And there be no herd in the stalls...
Yet I will rejoice in the Lord. I will JOY in the God of my salvation.
The Lord God is my Strength. He will make my feet like deer’s feet,
And He will make me walk on my high hills.”
God is most glorified when we are most satisfied in Him.

To God be the Glory forever, Amen!

Ladies breakfast 8th March 2024

Sharing the water of life

It was a precious time of fellowship and sharing.  The scripture for the day was John 4 v 14.  Jesus said "Whosoever drinks of the water that I shall give him/her shall never thirst; the water that I shall give him/her shall be in him/her a well of water springing up into everlasting life".

For those of us who have repented and asked the Lord Jesus to come into our hearts, we have in essence drunk of the water that He gives and we have LIFE.  This life is like a fountain in our being that is alive, vibrant and "bubbles up".  We can suppress it by filling our life with a lot of other things, so we need to regularly "unblock" our "wells" of clutter - the unimportant things; the cares of life; the worries of day to day living - and rather allow the living water to "bubble" out of us.  The more we do it, the more "normal" it becomes!

The encouragement to all of us is to share (let the living water flow out);  we never know how our sharing will others.   

We were so blessed to hear Belinda's testimony; her long journey which eventually brought her to Christ.  

 

Ladies Breakfast on 24th November 2023

CHARACTERISTICS OF A GODLY WOMAN

How do people know that I am a Christian?  Is it because I say so, or is it because of who I am in my day to day living?  We can all act a part for a while but it is when we are under pressure that what is inside us automatically comes out; its my reactions that truly reflect what kind of water is in my well; whether sweet or bitter; not necessarily my actions!

1 Peter 2 v 1... (amplified version) encourages us as to how our behaviour should be in regard to our husbands, and in fact, to ALL relationships in our lives.

"Be submissive to your own husbands (subordinate, not as inferior, but out of respect for the responsibilities entrusted to husbands and their accountability to God, and so partnering with them) so that even if some do not obey the Word, they may be won over (to Christ) without discussion by the godly lives of the wives, when they see your modest and respectful behaviour (together with your devotion and appreciation - love your husband, encourage him, and enjoy him as a blessing from God).  Let your adornment be the inner beauty of the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality and unfading charm of a gentle and peaceful spirit, (one that is calm and self-controlled, not overanxious, but serene and spiritually mature) which is very precious in the sight of God.

DEALING WITH THE TONGUE - James 3 v 2 to 12

For in many things we offend all.  If any woman offend not in word, the same is a perfect woman, and able also to bridle the whole body.  The tongue is a little member, and boasts great things.  With it we bless God, and with it we curse men.  Out of the same mouth proceeds blessing and cursing.  Does a fountain send forth at the same place sweet and bitter water?  A fountain cannot yield both salt water and fresh.

DISCIPLINE AND CONTROL OF WORLDLY DESIRES - 1 Cor 9 v 24 to 27

Don't you know that they which run in a race run all, but one receives the prices?  So run, that you may obtain.  And every woman that strives for the mastery is temperate in all things; now they do it to obtain a corruptible crown; but we an incorruptible.  I therefore so run, not as uncertainly; so fight I, not as one that beats the air; but I keep under my body, and bring it into subjection; lest that when I have spoken to others, I myself should be a castaway.

FILLING MY MIND WITH THE RIGHT THINGS - Romans 8 v 5,6 Phil 4 v 6 to 9

For they that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh; but they that are after the Spirit, the things of the Spirit.  To be fleshly minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.  Be careful for nothing; but in everything by prayer with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.  And the peace of God shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.  Whatsoever things are true, honest, just, pure, lovely..... think on those things which you have both learned, and received: and the God of peace shall be with you.

PUTTING OFF AND PUTTING ON - Col 3 v 8 to 14

Put off all these - anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth.  Lie not one to another.  Put on the new man, which is renewed in knowledge after the image of Him that created Him.  Put on bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering, forbearing one another, and forgiving one another.  Above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfectness.

RECOGNIZE YOU ARE IN A FIGHT - 1 Peter 5 v 5 to 9

God resists the proud, and gives grace to the humble, so humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time; casting all your care upon Him; for He cares for you.  Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil as a roaring lion, walks about seeking whom he may devour.  Resist him steadfast in the faith.

 

TEACH OTHERS - Titus 2 v 3 to 5

The older women (being sober, grove, temperate, sound in faith, in charity, in patience), that they be in behaviour as becomes holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; that they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.

 

SOME TESTIMONIES

On a dirt road, a bunch of us getting a lift, an expectant holiday feeling out in nature and the mood was set for a special morning with the ladies at Thali Thali!  We were out of town, away from our realities and that in itself opened us up to receive the love and companionship of the woman who each contribute to our fellowship.

With a designated number that lead us to our place at a table (and a little pot of jam 🍯), it was once again 😉 a battle to stop the chitter chatter of woman, loved ones knit together in love for our Lord Jesus Christ, to start breakfast!  After a  buffet consisting of tasty, well prepared nourishment we were challenged with opening up about the characteristics of a godly woman in an area that a chosen verse directed.

It was in the feedback from each table that it became very apparent that Christ remains the foundation and answer in every challenging situation we face. The foundation upon which we stand to face our diverse problems is, and will remain - “ not I, but Christ in me”.  The underlying truth of the morning was that we as woman, with modest, respectful behaviour, with inner beauty, with the imperishable quality and unfading charm of a gentle peaceful spirit - we are precious in the sight of God and we form the foundation of our respective worlds - in a quiet, dignified, Christ filled manner!

It was a wonderful celebration of womanhood within the circle of our fellowship and a great encouragement to stand - and remain standing firm, not in personal strength,  but in the overcoming power of Christ in us!!  Annie

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Friday's Ladies morning was as a breath of fresh air, inviting one to take a deep breath and stand firm again. The discussions were enlightening and exhorting, reminding one of the privileged, purposeful calling a woman has.  I was reminded to write down my prayers and conversations as it will bless the generations to come. I was also reminded how a personal relationship with Jesus is the most vital part of our everyday. 

Two verses were pressed on my heart: ‭‭
Proverbs‬ ‭11:25‬ ‭Whoever brings blessing will be enriched, and one who waters will himself be watered, And ‭‭Psalm‬ ‭78:4‬ ‭[4] We will not hide them from their children, but tell to the coming generation the glorious deeds of the Lord, and his might, and the wonders that he has done.
[7] so that they should set their hope in God and not forget the works of God, but keep his commandments; [8] and that they should not be like their fathers, a stubborn and rebellious generation, a generation whose heart was not steadfast, whose spirit was not faithful to God.

It was certainly a blessed morning.🌸🌷🌸  Danielle

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Oh God may we fill my/our minds with your will that our faith can grow into perfection by meditating on Your word. As I mirror my life on You I am aware that I am a mirror to all those around me and may your Light be reflective in me. God is sufficient for yesterday, today and my future.

May we greet each day with the excitement of knowing Christ has died and Risen and be joyful; excited for what's to come, knowing the peace of God is in me.  Sheryl 

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It was very special for me to meet up with the ladies at Thali Thali on the 24th November. Each table was allocated different topics to discuss.  The verse we were given was 1 Peter 3 verse 1 onwards – how our behaviour should be with respect to our husbands and in every relationship in our lives.

The verses tell me that I should be submissive to my husband – obeying him as the head of the wife as appointed by God and in doing so obeying God. That I should win him over by my modest and respectful behaviour together with my devotion and love, encouragement and enjoyment of him as a blessing from God. That adornment should be the inner beauty of the hidden person of the heart having a gentle and peaceful spirit, being self-controlled and not overly anxious which is precious in the sight of God.

At first when I saw the verses I felt very disheartened realizing that I do fail but as we discussed the topic I felt more encouraged. It was also mentioned that when we are under pressure what is inside automatically comes out and when I am in a stressful situation my reactions will truly reflect what kind of water is in my well. The question was, what kind of water is in my well – is it sweet or bitter? I was challenged by this a few years ago during a message delivered by Francois Visser and had realized that I was bitter about certain things that had happened. I had wept during the meeting. Since that meeting the Lord has been working in my life and although I have failed at times, my thinking has been changed. Forgiving has been important as I am a sinner myself. This is only through the grace of God and new life in Jesus which I have experienced. I have His righteousness in me. We discussed needing to commune with the Lord in Spirit and let Him be our strength in challenging times.

Our last verse was Titus 2 v3-5. That we as older women need to mature and have certain characteristics so that we may be examples and be able to teach younger women. This is in order that the word of God be not blasphemed.

To close off with I have become much more grateful and have realized that I had no right to be bitter towards anybody. I must say that my husband has been a patient and loving to me and I give God the glory for the blessing that he is to me.  Janelle

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A beautiful morning, wonderful sightings (a snake eagle), a precious get together for breakfast and fellowship at Tali Tali. 
We arrived, greeting each other with joy. Given a number, we found our seats and joined the group round our tables. Catching up with each other, we all enjoyed a delicious meal. 
Then sweet fellowship as we discussed being a child of God in the world we live in, in our homes, in the church. 
In our homes, the challenges we face, illnesses, personalities, learning to deal with difficult situations God’s way. How Jesus must be the very center of our being. How we need the Holy Spirit to give us power for service. The importance of the fruit of the spirit in our lives as we deal with people at home, in the church, in the world. The tongue!!     As we age, we are learning that listening more and speaking less brings a more peaceful result.
Testimonies from ladies who are in extremely difficult circumstances, yet are seeing God’s grace and mercy, strengthening their faith. 
We came away realising that fellowship is vital. We need each other as we walk this walk.  
A big thank you to those who organised this wonderful day. Ruth

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What a wonderful time of fellowship, great food and, most importantly, biblical discussion was had by all at the Ladies Breakfast! Thanks to all!

The general discussion surrounding living as Godly women was further divided into table groups and our group opened up in a lovely way, sharing personal experiences and what we had each learned from the word surrounding the scripture we were given :- Colossians 3:8-14 – Putting off and putting on. (Put off all these – anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth. Lie not one to another, seeing that you have put off the old man with his deeds. Put on the new man, which is renewed in knowledge after the image of Him that created Him. Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering, forbearing one another and forgiving one another. Above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfectness.)

Summary - Relationships were discussed and how we ought to be living the love of Christ within all our relationships in life, and in particular our relationships with our spouses.  Our summary came down to letting go and letting God, relinquishing control to Him instead of following the worldly way of taking the lead and controlling, as would be the ‘natural’ inclination of womankind. To look at our spouses and see the Lord behind them.. serving the Lord in Godly submission, and thereby serving our partners. To put God first in our own lives and walk our walk with Him, allowing our husbands to walk their own walk with the Lord, taking up their spousal and family responsibilities, as we take up our own places as is the Godly order of things and the route of blessing. Change our hearts oh God! Linda

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Friday was very special to me. I learned a lot from the ladies around my table.  The verse we got spoke directly to my heart. I am going through a difficult time right now. My husband was recently diagnosed with  Alzeimers, and it is a challenge to adjust to it.  The ladies gave me some  practical advice to manage it.  I am very grateful to them. I was encouraged when I left.  It also opened my eyes to see that I am not alone in this. There are others going through the same thing, and they came forward to tell me they will pray for me. To God all the glory.  Jackie

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"God resists the proud, and gives grace to the humble, so humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time; casting all your care upon Him; for He cares for you. Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil as a roaring lion, walks about seeking whom he may devour. Resist him steadfast in the faith."

All praise to our Heavenly Father for allowing us to gather as sisters in Christ on a beautiful sunny day at a tranquil venue... away from the maddening crowd. How often did our Lord draw away from the crowds to commune with His Heavenly Father. It is away from the busy schedules and crowds that we can find our peace and strength for each day; here we can hear that Still voice.
 
Christian women recognize that our God is a God of order and know that when He made Eve for Adam...He made her to be his helper and mate. He made her not inferior, but equal to Adam, but with different and specific roles; thus her body was also made different.  Husbands and wives compliment each other.
 
Lise gave an excellent analogy of this:  When a mother goes across the road to see her neighbour she leaves her two boys at home, before leaving she instructs the elder boy to take care of his younger brother and thus making him responsible for him.  She then instructed the younger boy to listen to the older brother who has been given authority over him and will be accountable for him. Likewise God gave Adam authority over Eve and their children.  Eve was to submit and obey her husband; as Adam was responsible and accountable for them.
 
This picture of marriage is bizarre to the world; and married women are encouraged to repel this type of marriage.  It is indeed difficult in this modern age....an age where women are elevated and encouraged to excel on every platform... to keep to the ideals of a Godly marriage, as prescribed to us by the Word of God.  Christian wives know and trust God and His Word and desire to obey Him and His Word. It is challenging for Christian wives to submit to unbelieving husbands, but the Word of God exhorts these women to submit to their husbands, as submitting to Christ and by their obedience and faithfulness to Christ they may win their husbands over to Christ. 
Christian wives are not only to submit to their husbands, but also pray for them, love them and enjoy them to the Glory of God.
 
The Word of God says that; "... it is by their fruits you will know them..." Matthew 7:16-27
When we are grafted into the Vine (Christ) and remain in Him we will bear much fruit and the World will know by how we behave towards our family at home and our Christian family, that we belong to Him. We are encouraged to let Christ in us shine so the World may see Him in us.  This is difficult and many of us do not always get it right, as we are all a work in progress, but we have a gracious God who has given us all the spiritual blessings to enable us to stand firm in these dark days. He has given us His Son who has redeemed us and intercedes for us, He has given us His Word and His Holy Spirit that guides us, convicted us and strengthens us, He has given us the Body of Christ... the saints with whom we have fellowship, who assists us in our needs by many means. .... And when we fall, He has made a way for us to come to Him in confession and repentance ....and by His grace tomorrow is a new day, yesterday with all the mistakes and mishaps are washed away by His grace and forgiveness. His mercies are new every morning... Great is His faithfulness.  Drew
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Ladies Breakfast 7th July 2023

Thank you to all those ladies who were able to attend the breakfast at The Breeze Restaurant on Friday.   It was a very precious time of sharing and getting to know one another a little bit more.

Thank you to Brenda Weir for coming and sharing the testimony of two ladies whom Jesus loved dearly; Martha and Mary. 

Even as the scripture says in 2Cor 2 v 14, 15  “we are the sweet fragrance of Christ which ascends to God….. an aroma from life to life (a vital fragrance, living and fresh)”; I left the restaurant with a strong sense of the presence of the Lord having been amongst us and it has lingered; like when someone walks into a room with a fragrance – its stays for a long while, even when they have left the room!! The challenge for me is when we enter a room and engage with people do we leave a sweet fragrance of Christ: is that our testimony?

A testimony can be viewed in two ways – what we say about ourselves, and secondly what others say about us.  Both of these aspects have been applied by our ladies.

We are all a work in progress, so as we have been encouraged let’s keep our hearts and minds ready and open to receive the Word which changes and makes us honourable vessels, fit for the Master’s use!  Carol Robson

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The ladies breakfast at the Breeze Restaurant, Windtown (a.m. 7/7/2023) was a joyful opportunity to meet and fellowship with ladies (well-known, less known and new) associated with LCF.

We were cleverly placed, 4 per table. We had been encouraged to study Romans 16 and Colossians 4 beforehand - Paul’s commendations / greetings to church members in Rome and Colosse, containing testimonies about them. While waiting for our breakfast, we shared which saint(s) we regarded as an inspiration to be like them.

I was inspired by sister Phoebe, a servant of the church in Cenchrea, who had been a helper of many and of Paul himself. Afr53 translation: “sy was vir baie, en ook vir my, tot steun.”
Paul also greeted Rufus …, and his mother and mine. Afr 83 Groete aan Rufus.. en aan sy moeder, wat ook altyd vir my ‘n ma was – inspiring me that I could be a mother to someone in God’s service too.

It was special to get to know 3 ladies at the table better by info shared spontaneously or offered in response to questions or talking. I got to know more about their life journeys, even mistakes, that God graciously worked out for their good. This was uplifting and stirred up my faith and hope.

In a second phase 2 people from a table were moved to a new table, and 2 other ladies joined us. That brought new energy and more connection.

Later Carol Robson encouraged all present to follow the example of Epaphras, “laboring fervently for you in prayers, that you may stand perfect and complete in all the will of God.” (you = Colossians)  We surely can partake in building God’s kingdom in many ways.

Brenda Weir closed with a good word of encouragement.

We left having had a tasty breakfast, spiritual food and endearing company.  Grace be with you (Col.4:18) Christina Malherbe

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In keeping with the theme of letters being written to churches with greetings and commendations from saints to saints in other congregations, here are some comments from the ladies at my table:

Greetings from Wendy; a faithful servant full of the love for Christ, who like Barnabas loves to exhort and encourage others. She encourages youths in a mentorship programme to become leaders and mentors amongst themselves.  She labours much in the hospitality industry and uses this environment to reflect and shine the light of the Lord Jesus Christ.

Greetings from Jackie; another faithful servant who quietly, prayerfully and patiently labours amongst elderly ladies who live in abusive marriages. She encourages and strengthens them in the Lord, also as Barnabas has strengthened, exhorted and discipled believers to remain faithful and strong in the Lord during suffering and persecution.

Greetings from our beloved Marlene, who like Rufus’ mother or Phoebe loves to mother and care for travelling saints by housing them in her home and providing physical and spiritual care for them.

Greetings from Belinda and Drew much loved by the Lord Jesus Christ, who quietly love and serve the Lord.

Brenda Weir shared from John 11:21-35 and Luke 10:38-42

Jesus loved Mary and Martha and they loved Him, but it is clear that these two sisters had a different relationship with Jesus.

I was thinking how the Gospels reveal the very special relationship Jesus had with women during His earthly ministry. God gifted women with the ability to nurture, love and care.  They serve both in practical ways (by getting things done) and spiritual ways (by pouring out spiritual blessings they have received) with prayers, exhortations and service. No congregation is lacking in sisters that serve the Lord faithfully behind the scenes. They are not always noticed or acknowledged by man, but their service is essential to the life of the Body of Christ. Their faithful service is not for earthly rewards, but for His Glory and for their joy of being called One of His.

Of the two sisters of Lazarus, Martha may have been the older, feeling more keenly the responsibility of keeping the house and hosting guests. When Martha complained to Jesus that Mary was not helping her in the kitchen, Jesus gently reminded that “Mary has chosen that good part”; sitting at His feet (v39-43). Martha is often distinguished as “the practical one” and Mary as “the spiritual one.” However, the Scriptures indicate that Martha also sat at Jesus’ feet (v39) and that Mary also served (v40). Both of these women revealed unique spiritual gifts with which they lovingly served God.  They remind us of the importance of balancing personal devotion (sitting at the Lord’s feet) with practical duties (serving the Body of Christ). These are not irreconcilable aspects of the life of a believer and should not be pitted against one another - both are vitally necessary in the Body of Christ.

2 Corinthians 3:14-17 “But their minds were blinded. For until this day the same veil remains unlifted in the reading of the OT, because the veil is taken away in Christ. But even to this day, when Moses is read, a veil lies on their heart.  Nevertheless, when one turns to the Lord, the veil is taken away.  Now the Lord is the Spirit; and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty.  But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory just as by the Spirit of the Lord.”

Whenever Moses left the people to go into the presence of the Lord, he removed his veil (Ex34:34). Likewise, under the New Covenant to turn to the Lord is to be open to the Spirit, who gives the liberty of unveiled access to God in Christ Jesus.  Verse 18 – Beholding as in a mirror denotes “reflecting” as well as “looking into”. As we behold the glory of the Lord, we are continually transformed into the same image by the Spirit of the Lord.  We then, with ever-increasing glory, reflect what we behold.  Drew Pivalizza🌸

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The testimony of some folk that speaks to me and inspires me to be like them :

COLOSSIANS 4

NYMPHA : An outstanding Christian woman who opened her home to hold a church to be used by God, known as the Church of Laodicea. She couldn't preach, sing or play but was remarkable because she held an upstanding reputation. She did what she could with what she had. That is all God expects from us.

ROMAN 16

PRISCILLA & AQUILA :

Priscila was of Jewish heritage and a Christian convert. They were fellow workers in Jesus Christ. They were a married couple from Rome who were forcibly displaced from their home by the edict of Claudius which exiled Jewish people from Rome. They were missions minded - missionaries. Paul lived with them for a year and a half in Corinth when they extended extreme hospitality and kindness to him. They risked their lives for Paul who was grateful to them. They provided a presence that strengthened the early Christian Churches and were mentored by Apollos. They were beheaded together - an act of courage without fear for the Gospel of Jesus Christ. They were an example of Christian marriage and missionary assistants. 

Belinda van Niekerk

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